We ’ve all been there .

I’m just gonna cut to the chase, my LGBTQ ladies: If you’re queer like me, chances are you’ve fallen for/been with a straight woman in your lifetime.

It’s a classic situation a lotttt of gay women have found themselves in, and sometimes it’s a damn good experience, and sometimes it’s a full-blown mess.

lesbian culture is :

  • hang for a straight girl

  • falling for your good friend

  • descend for a girl who ’s still in love with her X

  • fall for a girl who does n’t feel the same elbow room

  • falling for a girl who lives 5000 mile by

  • fall for a middle aged fame

So that made me want to ask you, dear reader: If you identify as an LGBTQ woman, what was your experience like hooking up/being with a straight woman?

Maybe you spent a good four months having sex with a straight woman, which were filled with intimate moments she swore never happened. She said you were “only an experiment,” and she “went back” to dating straight men (though it was a complicated decision on her part).

Or perhaps you locked eyes with a straight woman at a party and immediately connected. She might’ve been dating a man at the time, but once you started spending time together as “friends,” she left her man. She only wanted to be with you, and y’all lived happily ever after in a beautiful LGBTQ relationship.

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