Breakups are n’t easy , but sometimes , after the fact , you find out affair that reaffirm that you made the right choice .
Recently, IaskedtheBuzzFeed Communitymembers to tell us the wildest thing they learned about their relationship or their partner after breaking up with their S.O. Well, people opened up and shared all sorts of things they discovered after their breakup.
So, without further ado, here are some of the things people found out about after breaking up:
word of advice : Mentions of drug use and child endangerment .
1.
" That he was in a relationship with his x the whole clip we were in a relationship . So , he was date stamp us both at the same time .
Cherry on top : He would send us the same sound morning / good night textual matter complete with preferred name so they were n’t too personal . "
— ant21089
2.
" My ex broke up with me via telephone call after he got back home from studying abroad , and I found out that he cheated on me while he was over there and start date the woman he cheated on me with . He even say his friends that he bust up with me before he left . "
— danielleja
3.
" I am jolly , and I found out my now ex - husband had cheated on me with my former male roommate ( who I exist with when we my ex-husband and I meet ) throughout most of our relationship . "
— Anonymous
4.
" I do n’t know if this is ' wild , ' but I found out that a text I found when we were together was most definitely proof of him cheating . Just felt silly , I believed his ridiculous lie he told me at the clip to explicate it away . I had n’t been wander on before , so it offended me when I found out years later . "
— sd2014
5.
" Trying to keep this as brusk as possible :
My ex and I found drug in the car of his Church Father . Kinda made sense since he was living living like he earns 20k - plus a calendar month while working a regular 9 - 5 . He was delay hebdomadally at a Hyatt Hotel , grass at designer firebrand , and corrupt car ( like middle class Audis for his sons ) .
We thought possibly he was a in high spirits - profile drug dealer . My ex - young man was super surprised and deeply disordered at the thought . But yeah . No . call on out after the breakup , his dad was in reality a nut , and that BOTH of them put MY name and info on those bills leaving me with HELLA DEBT . The justice system imbibe ass where I live so I have been paying these throwaway for the last eight year . My credit account is ridiculous , and they take aside my power to reach what every other normal person my eld is achieving : purchase a motorcar , buying an apartment , etc . Fuck them . I desire karma bites their ass very bad . "
— cruellatweets
6.
" receive out from a carbon monoxide gas - prole that used to work with my ex-husband that he never mentioned me . At all . We lived together at the time . She bring up he carried himself as if he was single , though to her cognition , he never hook up with anyone . Good riddance . "
7.
" The bozo I was married to for 16 years was a player . Found out he had a whole freestanding biography with another woman who was the erotic love of his spirit and who he call his wife . He took me to the dry cleaners on my way of life out and did not even had any qualm with his conscience . You figure who I was to him : nothing . "
8.
" We broke up after he had come along to the beginning part of a calendar week - long kinsperson vacation . He left betimes saying he needed to do work out around his home . I knew something was up so I made it a dot to see him the night I came home . After questioning why he was play strange , we had a fight and break up — he enjoin he was n’t draw in to me anymore .
Found out from a Quaker after that he mentioned he had seen me and my cousin-german at a restaurant while he was with his new daughter . I was n’t ever with my cousin at this place . My cousin later said she was there with a ally that face like me ( and this was also when I was still on my family holiday ) . So , yeah , I definitely knew something was up . add up to discover out now , geezerhood later , he had been sleeping with an older lady that some of our guy friends had also slept with when we first dated — which he previously blaspheme he never did . Five senseless years ! Should have hear to my intuition at the beginning ! "
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" My ex got together with a latterly divorce neighbour very soon after our divorce . Her x and I started putting the small-arm together and suspect they had been cheating behind our back for a long clip . I try not to think about it too much , but there were unquestionably some Brobdingnagian signs I omit . "
10.
" I suspected my ex - wife had been doing drug behind my back . While we were together , I got the depression it was more unpaid drugs like weed and snow . After we divorced , I found out she had started step meth and had been hold back multiple meter on felony self-command charge , sometimes with our 5 - year - old girl in the car . She incite out of Department of State after we split so it was easy for her to hide it from me until I got my summer tribulation of our girl and I saw what the drugs had done to her . I immediately took full custody of my girl , and I have n’t hear much from my ex - wife since . "
11.
" My husband of seven years , who constantly incriminate me of cheat , eventually got caught cheating with a carbon monoxide gas - worker . After I result , I found out that he had gotten her fraught , but she had an abortion so her hubby would n’t regain out about the social occasion . He was Catholic and constantly trying to force me to have more children . I was whole aghast ! "
12.
" I learned two bighearted things after I left him . He had driven his bike to a Quaker ’s house and hid it in the champion ’s shed . The cat drove him back home where he got back into bed with me . I log Z’s through it all . The next morning he start out up , looked out , and say , " My motorcycle has been stolen ! " policy troupe paid off the loan . Also , I found out he had been manage cocain . We had a young child , and that was terrifying to find out . "
13.
" Not extremely unfounded , but I institute out that my swain of two year was cheating on me the whole prison term with a girl who was ' just a friend . ' The human relationship he had before ours end because the said champion was actually an ex of his , and he was still in love with her . "
14.
" I discover out when he went to Vegas he had a sex doer give him a BJ . He also told me the Vegas trip ended up being longer than what he actually planned because he flew to Cali to call a lady friend he had a crush on in college . "
15.
" More than a year after I had pull up stakes my ex - husband , I find out from a friend of ours that he had inquire her a few prison term to aid compensate our mortgage . Money was always tight , but he never differentiate me about this , and I do n’t bonk what happened to all of our money . I also found out that he scarcely ever paid my mom or sister back since he also asked for money from them , too ! "
16.
" About four months after we had ended thing , I learned that he misplace his virginity to my cousin . My male cousin … who was gay . "
17.
" During our spousal relationship , one Clarence Shepard Day Jr. I found a world ’s coat that was n’t mine in the back of my now ex - wife ’s machine when I borrow it . I face up her about whose pelage that was , and she insisted that the pelage was mine and essentially gaslighted me .
Things eventually got bad , and we divorced . About a class after our divorce , my x decided she want to clear her moral sense and admit that the coat had been that of a man ’s she ’d cope with on Tinder . "
18.
" I ’m a police force policeman . My ex ’s pa was a police military officer . My ex is a fire fighter . After we broke up , I encounter out that he is a wanted felon — along with everyone else — ‘cause it was on the news . I have * great * taste in human race . "
19.
" That his momma found and paid for the lawyer for our divorce … I mean , it trail with the grounds I bequeath ; he could n’t do anything ' grownup ' if he try . "
observe : Some responses have been edited for distance and/or clarity .
