" I do n’t know if it ’s jealousy , contest , or the fact that she said a meanspirited affair about me once that really hurt my feelings . ”
Rosie O’Donnelldiscussed thestrainbetween her andEllen DeGeneres.
As you may know, the two have known each other since the ’90s, when they were both rising comics. Rosietoldthe Hollywood Reporter that back then, they had “a good relationship” and “were friends.”
She recalled how she would “go to parties” with Ellen, Melissa Etheridge, and k.d. lang, and how she’d even hosted Ellen on an episode of her show, where she’d joked with her about being “Lebanese” before Ellen came out.
“We supported each other,” she added. “Which is why when she came on my show, I said, ‘Let me not have you standing there by yourself. Let’s get a joke in there.’ And we sat down and came up with that, ‘Oh my God, I love Casey Kasem. Maybe I’m Lebanese.’ It became a big thing.”
But Rosie says eventually, something in their relationship shifted.
“It became a strange, ‘There can’t be two lesbians in this town,’ kind of a thing,” Rosie said. “Then we each had success and went our separate ways.”
Rosie said they remained out of contact until very recently, when Ellen sent her a text. “She texted me a few weeks ago checking in, seeing how I’m doing, and I asked her how she’s surviving not being on TV,” Rosie shared. “It’s a big transition. But we’ve had our weirdness in our relationship. I don’t know if it’s jealousy, competition, or the fact that she said a mean thing about me once that really hurt my feelings.”
Rosie also said: “I have a picture of her holding [my then-infant son] Parker. I know her mother. I could identify her brother without her in the room. I knew her for so many years. It just felt like I don’t trust this person to be in my world.”
